so what makes the exceed brand so unlikable among the masses? and when starting out should i start with 1/10 or 1/8 scale? is one easier to control than the other?
Exceed, well, its fairly simple. They are very cheap to buy, so they are very cheaply made. It's mostly a matter of preference between the scales. When it comes to the racing scene 1/8 is definitely the most popular.
1/8 scale:
Pros: Bigger parts means more durability, faster, more RC and engine choices, bigger parts can be easier to repair/upgrade, more popular than 1/10 at the track
Cons: More expensive parts and engines, more fuel used, requires a bit more space to operate
1/10 scale:
Pros: Smaller vehicle requires less room, cheaper, better fuel economy, cheaper parts
Cons: Much smaller selection of parts and vehicles (especially engines), more likely to break than 1/8
Its just a matter of what you want to do with it. I'm a 1/8 guy myself, but different people want different things from their RC. The main barrier that stops some people from going 1/8 is the extra costs, but I think its worth it. The 1/8 trucks and buggies are just so tough; you can beat the hell out of them and often get away unscathed. My current buggy is on its second engine and has ran through probably near 11 or 12 gallons of fuel so far(most of which has been rough running on the track)and the wing mount broke once. That's it. (Now of course other parts like bearings and clutch shoes had to be replaced but that is normal wear and tear that happens to any RC). I'm not saying 1/10 will fall apart in your hands, but they are definitely not as tough. So in a way, the higher prices of the 1/8 parts are less of a cost gap from the 1/10 than you may think because the parts break less often.